Life Essay, Research Paper

LIFE

Once in a while you meet someone, and soon

You both discover the two of you are truly

Something special to each other. . .

You share your thoughts and feelings so

relaxed, so openly, and right away you

know your friendship’s truly meant to be.”—–

Life isn’t about keeping score.

It’s not about how many friends you have

Or how accepted you are.

Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you’re alone.

It isn’t about who you’re dating, who you used to date, how

many people you’ve dated, or if you haven’t been with anyone at all.

It isn’t about who you have kissed,

It’s not about sex.

It isn’t about who your family is or how much money they have

Or what kind of car you drive.

Or where you are sent to school.

It’s not about how beautiful or ugly you are.

Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,

or what kind of music you listen to.

It’s not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown

Or if your skin is too light or too dark.

Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart

everybody else thinks you are, or how smart standardised

tests say you are.

It’s not about what clubs you’re in or how good you are at

“your” sport.

It’s not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper

and seeing who will “accept the written you.”

LIFE JUST ISN’T.

But, life is about who you love and who you hurt.

It’s about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.

It’s about keeping or betraying trust.

It’s about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon.

It’s about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe

heartening.

About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.

It’s about what judgements you pass and why.

And who your judgements are spread to.

It’s about who you’ve ignored with full control and intention.

It’s about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.

It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and

spreading it.

But most of all, it’s about using your life to touch or poison

other people’s hearts in such a way that could have never occurred

alone.

Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and

those choices are what life’s all about.

LIFE

Once in a while you meet someone, and soon

You both discover the two of you are truly

Something special to each other. . .

You share your thoughts and feelings so

relaxed, so openly, and right away you

know your friendship’s truly meant to be.”—–

Life isn’t about keeping score.

It’s not about how many friends you have

Or how accepted you are.

Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you’re alone.

It isn’t about who you’re dating, who you used to date, how

many people you’ve dated, or if you haven’t been with anyone at all.

It isn’t about who you have kissed,

It’s not about sex.

It isn’t about who your family is or how much money they have

Or what kind of car you drive.

Or where you are sent to school.

It’s not about how beautiful or ugly you are.

Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,

or what kind of music you listen to.

It’s not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown

Or if your skin is too light or too dark.

Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart

everybody else thinks you are, or how smart standardised

tests say you are.

It’s not about what clubs you’re in or how good you are at

“your” sport.

It’s not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper

and seeing who will “accept the written you.”

LIFE JUST ISN’T.

But, life is about who you love and who you hurt.

It’s about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.

It’s about keeping or betraying trust.

It’s about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon.

It’s about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe

heartening.

About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.

It’s about what judgements you pass and why.

And who your judgements are spread to.

It’s about who you’ve ignored with full control and intention.

It’s about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.

It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and

spreading it.

But most of all, it’s about using your life to touch or poison

other people’s hearts in such a way that could have never occurred

alone.

Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and

those choices are what life’s all about.

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