Two Kinds Essay, Research Paper

A person spends most of their developing years under the guidance

of their parents or guardians. They affect how we think, how we feel,

and how we act. These are among the people who hold the greatest influence.

Amy Tan’s Two Kinds and Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” both deal with the

relationship between a young girl and the guiding force in her life. Amy

Tan tells of a mother’s expectation for her daughter to be a child prodigy.

Jamaica Kincaid tells of an unknown person describing to a girl how to be

a “good” girl. Both essays illustrate an authority figure that has

expectations for a young female and why and how those expectations will

come about.

As young children growing up without a care in the world, we cannot

comprehend why authority figures dictate how we should behave. In “Two

Kinds”, the daughter is expected to be a child prodigy because her mother

believes “you can be anything you want in America”. The mother sees other

children with amazing talents and thinks her child could be just as

talented, if not more so. She continually places pressure on her daughter

to be some kind of prodigy. The daughter is expected to be a great beauty

with unmatched dance abilities, an untapped wealth of useless information,

and piano-playing skills like no other. In “Girl”, the expectations are

much lower, but just as stringent. The girl is expected to do a myriad of

chores and to become a “lady”. She is advised on how she should act and

how she can avoid being a “slut”.

In “Two Kinds”, the mother has high hopes; she believes a person

can be anything they want in America and she wants a daughter who excels

in some area. All of the mother’s hopes lay on the daughter. Her hopes

are bolstered by stories about remarkable children with incredible talents.

If they can succeed are such a young age, surely her child can as well.

The mother wants her daughter to be the best she can be, but she has

unrealistic expectations. The girl in Jamaica Kincaid’s essays is not

being held to such high hopes and dreams. The expectations placed on her

are not as high, but are equally unforgiving. Her authority figure wants

her to be the perfect “traditional” girl. She is expected to cook, clean,

iron, and not assert her independence.

Children, though, are naturally independent and free-willed. For

the authority figures to have their way, the girls must be obedient.

Obedience and denigration are the methods in which these expectations are

supposed to met. In “Two Kinds”, the mother states, “Only one kind of

daughter can live in this house–obedient daughter!” The daughter does

not want to live up to outside expectations, but she does not want to

disappoint her mother; part of her feels obligated to be loyal. The mother

compares the daughter to other children, which makes the daughter feel

worthless. The mother talks about a three-year-old who knows the capital

of all the states. She forces the daughter to watch television shows

featuring talented youngsters. She implies her daughter is not as good

as the other children. In “Girl”, the girl is given two choices be a

girl or be a slut. Essentially, she is being told what she must do; there

is no room for debate. In between being told what to do, though, the

authority figure also reminds her she could well be on her way to becoming

a slut.

In both essays, the girls come full circle. They both go through a

period of being told what to be and what to do. Both girls resent the

pressure and expectations put on them in their adolescence, but in the end,

they choose paths that lead back to their beginnings. Amy Tan’s girl

spends a good portion of her youth hating practicing piano. As an adult,

she plays an entire piece of music and is marveled by the beauty of it.

In some respects, she becomes the child her mother wanted. Jamaica

Kincaid’s girl spends a good portion of her youth protesting the label of

“slut” placed upon her. In the conclusion, she becomes the kind of woman

she swore she was not.