Doll House By Ibsen Essay, Research Paper

Helmer is a successful bank lawyer in the drama ?A Doll House? written by

Henrik Ibsen. His wife?s name is Nora. She is a housewife with three children

and gets help raising them from her maid Helen. Nora and Helmer are both busy

people within their lives. Little do they know that their marriage is not safe

due to the fact that it is not given first priority in the lives they led. The

action takes place in their home. Helmer is very protective when it comes to the

family image that is portrayed to the public. This is because his career, as a

lawyer, depends on it. He feels that he should have a perfect public image for

the sake of his career and not his family, since that is what comes first in his

life. This is seen when he discovers a letter from a bank that his wife, Nora,

gets a loan from. He finds out that the loan was acquired illegally through

forgery. She uses her father?s signature. Helmer immediately strips her of all

her rights to him as his wife and to the children as their mother. He does not

ask for divorce since this will not be a good public image for his career,

instead he asks her to have a separate room from his and limits her time with

the children. Helmer is the rule maker of his house. He meticulously gives

details on how he wants his house run. He has set time for everything, when the

meals are prepared, when the children should go to sleep, when they should wake

up, what to eat, when to check the mail etc. This is probably the reason why he

is successful in his career. He is again putting his career as first priority

and uses the principal that he applies to it in the family. Helmer has an office

in the house of with he gives limited accesses to his wife, Nora. He treats her

as if she was one of his children instead of ?his wife?. He entertains his

official friends in the office in closed-door sessions and usually doesn?t

fill in his wife on his business. Career comes first for Hemler. The key to the

mailbox is in the hands of Hemler. It looks like he does not take his wife as an

equal by not giving her a spare key. He wants to be the first one to handle all

the mail, scans the letters in the box and then distributes them to the

appropriate people. His wife again is placed second to his business. Nora,

Helmer?s wife is also very protective when it comes how her husband views her.

I see this when she hides the fact that she is having chocolate, which is

forbidden in the household. She would rather let Dr. Rank, a family friend, know

about the chocolate and not her husband. The doctor actually helps her to hide

the package when Helmer walks into the living room. She also puts him in second

place in her life. Nora also tells her friend Mrs. Linde about the money that

she squeezes out of her house hold budget to pay for the loan she took from the

bank. She does not tell her husband about the loan because she knows how he will

react towards her and the issue. She protects herself instead of their

relationship, putting their marriage in second place. The family friend doctor

tells Nora how he has been in love with her for a long time. She reacts

negatively letting Dr. Rank know that she will not tolerate his behavior. She

keeps it from her husband since she wants to maintain an innocent view from him.

The hiding of such issues from Helmer is first priority instead of her marriage.

Nora is caught red-handed lying about the visit of Nis Krogstad, the banker. Nis

is responsible for the Nora?s loan. Helmer asks about the banker?s visit and

she denies the fact that he had come the their house. She is constantly lying

just to save herself from changing her husbands view towards her. The blow to

their marriage happens when Helmer discovers that his wife forged a bank

document to get a loan. He gets angry and strips her of all her motherly and

wife rights. Another letter shows up and clears them form the forgary He changes

immediately and reinstats Nora back to her postion in their home. This clearly

shows that he loves his career more than anything else. Nora on the other hand

expects her husband to show her a sacrificial love and take the blame for the

forgary. At the end of the drama Helmer and Nora end up living separtae lives.

They have both contributed to their marriage?s downfall. Nora with her

obsetion of wanting to always please her husband by using pretence, lies,

undermining strategies and fear and Helmer with the love for his career, hunger

for power, control and his fear of un unplesant public image help to destroy one

another. The most perfect family is no more since Nora loved herself excesivly

and Helmer loved his career extremly.