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Adoption Essay, Research Paper

Are parents those who give birth to a child or those who care for a child? Does nature or

nurture make a woman a mother? As more and more heartbreaking tugs-of-war between

biological and adoptive parents surface, anyone searching for a baby has good reason for concern

(Casey 119).

Baby Jessica was raised from infancy by adoptive parents, Jan and Roberta DeBoer. For

two and a half years Jessica was at the heart of one of the most bitter custody battles in America,

caught between the parents in Michigan who reared her and the parents in Iowa who gave birth to

her and wanted her back (Ingrassia and Springen 60). Cara and Dan Schmidt took screaming

baby Jessica from her home in 1993 when they won their court battle to get her back (Casey 119).

Baby Jessica is just one of the many victims of child custody battles in America.

Jane and John Doe adopted a baby boy, Richard in March of 1991. Richard?s biological

mother, Daniela Kirchner, gave up her son while her boyfriend, Otakar, was out of the country

visiting his family. He had left Daniela just two weeks before Richard?s birth. Daniela had heard

rumors that Otakar had been cheating on her with another woman, in Czechoslovakia, so she

decided to lie to him about their baby, Richard. She told Otakar that Richard had died just four

days after his birth. In May of 1991 Otakar returned to Chicago and the couple reconciled.

Daniela told him about the adoption of their son and how she lied to him about his death. Eighty

days after Richard?s birth, Otakar challenged the adoption. He claimed that he had no knowledge

of his son until his return to the US and now he wanted his son back desperately (Ingrassia and

McCormick 44).

The Does met in seventh grade in a suburban Chicago school but didn?t start dating until

they were in their early twenties. Married in 1979, Jane, a paralegal, and John and a son. They say

that they had not sought to adopt another child but were ?bowled over? by that first call about

Richard. Never did they expect that legal briefs and litigation would dominate their lives for the

next three years (Alexander 40).

After three and a half years of court battle, baby Richard was torn away from his adoptive

parents where he had lived since he was four days old and returned to his biological father, who

had never seen him before (Terry A1).

Wendy and Tom Yack adopted a week old baby girl, Rachael Marie, in 1980. After five

years of trying to conceive and five years of failure, Wendy and Tom broached the subject of

adoption and began to like the idea. When Rachael was only two months old Wendy and Tom

learned of Mary Beth Hazler and Robert Grimes, Rachael?s biological parents.

Mary Beth was seventeen years old and had broken up with her boyfriend, Grimes, when

she was three months pregnant. Grimes had more than twenty arrests as a juvenile and had once

faced charges of assaulting a police officer. After the Yacks had cared for Rachael for over two

months they were informed that Mary Beth and Grimes had reconciled and decided they wanted

their child back.

Less than four months later, Wendy and Tom were served with papers ordering them to

return Rachael to her biological parents. They were filed just twenty days before the end of a six

month waiting period required by Pennsylvania law before an adoption becomes final (Yack 98).

In June of 1981, Rachael was placed in foster care before the court reached it?s decision.

At that time the judge had concluded that the Yacks had no rights to Rachael, but he was still

deliberating whether Mary Beth and Grimes were fit parents. Four weeks later, the judge ordered

Rachel to return to the Yacks pending a final decision.

The Yacks were overjoyed but the child who came back to their home wasn?t the same

little girl. She stared at the walls. It was as if she knew. On July 10, 1981, sixteen month old

Rachael was taken from her home by Mary Beth and Grimes forever.

Wendy stated, ?I feel to this day that we were used. We were caretakers, a baby parking

lot, while the birth mother got her life in order. Tom and I were falling in love with a baby we

thought was our daughter, and Mary Beth was finishing high school and deciding whether she

wanted to take care of her baby and get back together with her boyfriend? (99).

Children learn to bond, trust and love during their first years and removing a child from

it?s home where her or she makes their first attachments can make it hard for her to connect with

others later in life. The blindness of the legal system to the child?s psychological and emotional

needs is devastating to the child (Diamant 96).

Whether we are learning, the sagas of children like Jessica and Richard rivet us, to a

degree that far out-strips their actual numbers (Ingrassia and McCormick 45). The best interest of

the child is often in the eyes of the beholder. It can be very elusive (Hegger 1B).

The pool of prospective adoptive parents has never been larger due to the baby boom

generation. Our insecurity over adoption is at an all-time high in part because interest in adopting

is also at a peak.

Kristi Carman, who works in the national headquarters of Concerned United Birthparents

(CUB) in Des Moines, believes that adoption should be avoided whenever possible because it

causes ?a lifelong trauma for all involved? (Diamant 96).

In early August 1994 the National Conference of Commissioners on Uniform State Laws

drafted The Uniform Adoption Act. It states laws on services to birth parents, timeperiods for

revocation of consent, pre-placement evaluators of prospective adoptive families, disclosure of

medical and social background information, contact between the children and birth parent, order

of placement, transracial adoption, multiple new requirements for state public social services

agencies, records, confidentiality and access and birth fathers.

Many people and organizations oppose the proposed Uniform Adoption Act. A few are

the Child Welfare League of America, The American Adoption Congress, Children Awaiting

Parents and The Adoption Exchange Association. Many of these organizations feel that the Act

fails to adequately protect the rights of the children, and focuses instead on expediting the

permanent separation of infants from their birth parents in the absence of adequate counseling,

exploration of alternatives and procedural safeguards.

It was the absence of these crucial ingredients of conscientious adoption practice that the

seeds were sown for the anguish of Baby Richard and Baby Jessica: neither birthmother had

adequate , unbiased counseling, something that may have led them to make more considered,

timely choices, including to honestly disclosure the fathers? names; nor were they supported in

exploring alternatives to adoption (Axness 1).

An adoptive mother and assistant attorney general in Montana, Kim Kradokfer, states, ?I

think what the Act ultimately does is to put adoptions more at risk. I think it makes adoptions in

many cases more coercive, because the birth parents may not have had the counseling, and may

not be making a free decision. I think that this Act will cause more of the Baby Richards and Baby

Jessicas (2).

An adoption law should be drawn from the wisdom of several professionals and

consumers who are involved and impacted by adoption and should be judged upon the following

factors: It should ensure that before placement, the child is legally free; it should require a

thorough assessment of the family who would raise the child before the placement is made; It

should require post-placement services; The best interests of the child should take precedence

over any other concerns. The Uniform Adoption Act does not provide important protections for

adoptive parents, birth parents or children who are subject to adoption (McCarty 1).

Are ?parents? those who give birth to a child or those who care for a child? Does nature

or nurture make a woman a mother? As more and more heartbreaking tugs-of-war between

biological and adoptive parents surface, anyone searching for a baby has good reason for concern

(Diamant 69). Works Cited:

Alexander, Bryan and Marjorie Bosen. ?The Ties That Bind.? People. 15 August 1994:38-40.

Axness, Marcy Wineman. [[email protected]]. ?In the Best Interests of Whom?? [http://

www.adopting.org/uniform.html].

Casey, Kathryn. ?The Case of Baby Lenore 25 Years Later.? Ladies Home Journal. August 1995:

116-9.

Diamant, Anita. ?Is It Safe to Adopt A Child?? McCalls (Jan 1994): 96-99. Rpt. in Family. Vol.

5. Ed. Eleanor Goldstein. Boca Raton, FL: S.I.R.S., Inc., 1994. Art. 22.

Hegger, Susan. ?The Trials of Childhood.? St. Louis Post-Dispatch. (Aug 1993): 1B. Rpt. in

Family. Vol. 5. Ed. Eleanor Goldstein. Boca Raton, FL: S.I.R.S., Inc., 1993. Art. 17.

Ingrassia, Michelle and John McCormick. ?Ordered to Surrender? Newsweek. (Feb 1995):44-45.

Rpt. in Family. Vol. 5. Ed. Eleanor Goldstein. Boca Raton, FL: S.I.R.S., Inc., 1995. Art.

41.

Ingrassia, Michelle and Karen Springen. ?She?s Not Baby Jessica Anymore.? Newsweek. 21

March 1994: 60-3.

McCarty, Kevin. ?Adoption Exchange Association: Statement on the Uniform Adoption Act.?

[http://www.webcom.com/kmc/adoption/law/uaa/aca.html]. January 1997.

Terry, Don. ?Storm Rages in Chicago Over Revoked Adoption.? New York Times. 15 July 1994:

A1:A12.

Yack, Wendy and Susan Littwin. ?They Took Away My Baby.? McCalls. (Jan 1994): 96-99. Rpt.

in Family. Vol. 5. Ed. Eleanor Goldstein. Boca Raton, FL: S.I.R.S., Inc., 1994. Art. 22


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