Safe Sex Vs. Unsafe Sex Essay, Research Paper

Safe Sex vs. Unsafe Sex

The “sexual revolution” of the 1960’s has been stopped dead in its

tracks by the AIDS epidemic. The danger of contracting AIDS is so real

now that it has massively affected the behavior of both gay and straight

folks who formerly had elected to lead an active sexual life that included

numerous new sexual contacts. The safest option regarding AIDS and sex

is total abstinence from all sexual contact. For those who prefer to

indulge in sexual contact, this is often far too great a sacrifice. But

it IS an option to be considered.

For those who wish to have sexual contact with folks on a relatively casual

basis, there have been devised rules for “safe sex”. These rules are very

strict, and will be found quite objectionable by most of us who have

previously enjoyed unrestricted sex. But to violate these rules is

to risk unusually horrible death. Once one gets used to them the rule for

“safe sex” do allow for quite acceptable sexual enjoyment in most cases.

Note that even when one is conscientiously following the recommendations for

safe sex, accidents can happen. Condoms can break. One may have small cuts

or tears in ones skin that one is unaware of. Thus, following rules for

“safe sex” does NOT guarantee that one will not get AIDS. It does, however,

greatly reduce the chances. There are many examples of sexually active

couples where one member has AIDS disease and the other remains seronegative

even after many months of safe sex with the diseased person. It is

particularly encouraging to note that, due to education programs among San

Francisco gay males, the incidence of new cases of AIDS infection among

that high risk group has dropped massively. Between practice of safe sex and

a significant reduction in the number of casual sexual contacts, the spread

of AIDS is being massively slowed in that group. Similar responsible

action MUST be taken by straight folks to further slow the spread of AIDS,

to give our researchers time to find the means to fight it.

Despite a veritable blitz of AIDS information, experts claim that too few are

changing their lifestyles or behavior sufficiently to protect themselves from

AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. A recent Canadian poll revealed

widespread ignorance of the fact that AIDS is primarily a sexually acquired

infection, not caught by touch. The survey showed that although sexual

intercourse has risen steeply in the past 10 years, less than 25 percent of

adults aged 18 to 34 have altered their sexual behavior to protect themselves

against AIDS, i.e. by consistent use of condoms and spermicide. THE CENTRAL

MESSAGE IS CLEAR: UNLESS ABSOLUTELY SURE THAT YOUR SEX PARTNER IS HIV-FREE, USE

A CONDOM (latex, not made of animal material) plus a reliable spermicide.

Studies with infected hemophiliacs show that condom use by a regular sex reduces

infection risks, compared to unprotected sex. And regular use may bring the

added reward of preventing other sexually transmitted-diseases such as gonorrhea

and chlamydia or unwanted pregnancy. Many educators say that, by whatever means,

AIDS information must get out to young people at an early enough age for them to

absorb it before becoming sexually active. The best way to avoid AIDS is to

regard it as a highly lethal disease and treat it common sense prevention.

Avoiding infection is IN ONE’S OWN HANDS. To halt its spread, people are

encouraged to and apply accurate AIDS information to their living styles and

sexual partners in order to reduce the risk of getting or transmitting the virus.

Health promoters claim that “reaching the many who don’t want to know” is no

easy task. They suggest that educators must learn how and to communicate AIDS

information. Many Public Health Departments are now taking the lead in education

about AIDS with large scale public awareness programs.

Premarital sex is also bad for your physical health. Sexually transmitted

diseases have received abundant attention from the press in recent

years. Equal time has not been given to the opinion held by many medical experts

that extra-marital abstinence is without a doubt the best way to avoid these

diseases. Premarital sex is hardly an expression of freedom. Young people who

become sexually active in response to peer pressure to be sophisticated and

independent are actually becoming victims of current public opinion. No one is

really free who engages in any activity in order to impress the majority.

As of now, no other current methods of contraception are considered effective

enough to count on. The only sure way to avoid pregnancy is not to have

intercourse at all. Put another way, the only 100% effective oral contraceptive

is the word “NO!” Since going all the way to intercourse involves such serious

risks, how can one deal with all those sexual urges? You have a number of

options. 1. ABSTAIN. You can use will power. No one has to have sex.

Many go without having sex for years or even a lifetime without negative results.

2. PLAN. Plan ahead and decide how far down the “road to arousal” you

think you should go. Go no farther. Express your emotions up to that point,

and then just call a halt. 3. SUBLIMATE. You can firmly decide to engage in

some other kinds of things as a deliberate substitute for giving in to your sex

drive. It could be sports, exercise, art, or some hobby – almost anything that

really holds your interest. This can distract your attention away from thoughts

of sex. 4. AVOID. Avoid all the kinds of things that can tempt you.

Some other very serious STD’s besides aids are: Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Genital

Warts and Human Papilloma Virus, Genital Herpes, HSV, Crabs, Pubic Lice,

Nonspecific Urethritis (NSU) or Nongonoccal Urethritis (NGU), and Hepatitis B.