Joy Luck Club By Any Ten Essay, Research Paper

Is it fair to judge someone by their sex? In traditional Chinese culture, many

judgments were made about a person just by observing their sex. The women was

looked upon as an inferior being. They had little or no status in society, and

little was expected from them. They were discriminated against when they tried

to stand up for themselves. Chinese culture was customarily male dominated. The

male was expected to do most of the work, and the woman was expected to stay at

home with their mouth shut. This custom leaves an unwelcome feeling in a

woman?s heart. They feel like nobody cares, and it makes it much harder to

live with an optimistic view on life. In the novel, The Joy Luck Club, by Amy

Tan, Ann-Mei Hsu, Lindo Jong, and Ying Ying St. Clair are all women who grow up

in a traditional China, where there is sexism. They deal with serious problems

that corrupt their lives. Through perseverance and the passing of time their

lives return to normal. Ann-Mei, Lindo, and Ying Ying subjugated by males

because of their sex, and Chinese tradition. Ann-Mei is oppressed in many ways.

Her mother is invited to spend time at the home of a wealthy merchant named Wu

Tsing. During the night he comes into Ann-Mei?s mother?s room and rapes her.

Despite emotionally scaring Ann-Mei this demonstrates the lack of respect for a

woman in China. Ann-Mei?s mother is forced into concubinage because of her

lack of power as a women. She becomes the third wife. As a third wife she

maintains very little status in the home of Wu Tsing. Ann-Mei?s family disowns

her mother because by becoming a third wife she has brought shame to her family.

?When I was a young girl in China, my grandmother told me my mother was a

ghost?. Ann-Mei is told to forget about her mother and move on in her life.

The fact that Ann-Mei is told to forget her mother because she has become

something she could not control, is preposterous. She was raped and forced into

concubinage. The lack of appreciation for a female causes this feeling of shame

for the Mei family. Since rape and polygamy is accepted in China, it makes it

appear that what Ann-Mei?s mother has done is wrong, and what Wu Tsing did was

right or normal. Ann-Mei?s daughter Rose, reaps the disadvantages of being a

woman because she feels that she can?t make decisions. ?…Ted decided where

we went on vacation. He decided what new furniture we should buy…We used to

discuss some of these matters, but we both knew the question would boil down to

my saying, ?Ted, you decide.?? This illustrates Rose?s disability to be

assertive, and her dependence on a male. The life of Ann-Mei demonstrated how

women were undervalued in society. The story of Lindo Jong allegorizes how women

were discriminated against. At the very young age of twelve, Lindo is betrothed

to Tyan-yu. This is an example of the insignificance of a female?s feelings.

Nobody wants to have an arranged marriage. Marriage is sacred, and is supposed

to be exercised by two people who are in love with each other. This is an act of

extreme unfairness to Lindo. This shows how an accepted Chinese practice is in

actuality hurtful toward the female sex. ?I [Lindo] once sacrificed my life to

keep my parents? promise?. Here, Lindo is talking about her arranged,

loveless marriage. Chinese tradition is restricting Lindo from being her own

person, and living her own life. She is unable to make her own decisions. Lindo

is so willing to sacrifice her life in order to preserve the honor of her

parents. There is no honor in forcing someone to be unhappy. On another note,

Lindo was quickly blamed for not having children. Actually, their lack of

offspring resulted from Tyan-yu?s lack of interaction with Lindo. It was

impossible for Lindo to stand up for herself because no matter what, the male

would be believed over the female. Lindo is a perfect example of how Chinese

tradition prohibited the female from having status in society. Ying Ying St.

Clair?s life suggests a lack of honor for the female. As a sixteen year old,

she attends the festivities after her aunt?s wedding. There, a man plunges a

knife through a watermelon, symbolizing the loss of virginity. This is a sign of

profound discourtesy. A man who treats a woman like this and gets away with it

is very cruel. Something is wrong with society, if it allows gestures like this

to go on unnoticed at a public party. This taunt deeply hurt Ying Ying, but her

strength helped her overcome its pain. Later, she married this man. He began

going on business trips to the north. Ying Ying came to know he was leaving her

to live with an opera singer. ?That I [Ying Ying] thought of throwing myself

into the lake like the other ladies of shame. And I will tell her [Lena] of the

baby I killed because I came to hate this man so much?. This shows how badly

this man made Ying Ying feel. He pledged love to her, but it showed that he

undervalued Ying Ying once he left. Ying Ying was unable to really ever love

again. Lena became involved in a terrible marriage also. She subordinated her

spirit to her husband, and she bitterly resents his domination over her. She can

do nothing to stop this, because that Chinese culture calls for male domination.

Ying Ying?s life as a female was poor because how males treated her was

accepted by Chinese society.